Character

Found Family

/faʊnd ˈfæm.ə.li/ noun
IN ONE SENTENCE

A group of characters who are not related by blood but form bonds as deep as family - chosen loyalty rather than inherited obligation.

Definition

Found family is a character dynamic (and beloved trope) in which a group of people who are not biologically related come together and forge bonds that function as family. These groups typically form around shared experience, mutual need, or collective survival, and the emotional arc of the trope follows the characters learning to trust, protect, and love each other. Found family has deep roots in literature but has surged in popularity in YA, fantasy, and science fiction, where characters are often displaced from their origins and must build new support systems from scratch.

Why It Matters

Found family resonates because it speaks to a universal need: the desire to belong. Many readers come from complicated family situations or have experienced feeling like an outsider, and watching characters build the family they need from the people who choose to stay hits differently than any blood-is-thicker-than-water narrative ever could. It is also an incredible engine for character development, because the dynamics within the group create constant opportunities for conflict, growth, and emotional payoff.

Types of Found Family

The Crew +
The Misfits +
The Surrogate Family +
The Fellowship +

Famous Examples

Six of Crows — Leigh Bardugo

Six outcasts - a crime boss, a spy, a sharpshooter, a Grisha, a convict, and a runaway - pull off an impossible heist. The heist is the plot. The family they become is the story.

The Lord of the Rings — J.R.R. Tolkien

The Fellowship is one of literature's earliest and most enduring found families. Hobbits, elves, dwarves, and men set aside ancient prejudices and form bonds that outlast the quest itself.

A Deadly Education — Naomi Novik

El builds a reluctant found family in a school designed to kill its students, and the group's survival depends on trust forming between people who have every reason not to trust.

One Piece — Eiichiro Oda

The Straw Hat Pirates are the ultimate found family - a rubber-limbed captain who collects people the way some people collect stamps, building a crew bound by dreams and absolute loyalty.

Common Mistakes

Assembling the found family too quickly without earning the bonds through shared experience.

Found family needs to be built, not declared. Let the group start with friction, suspicion, or indifference. The reader needs to watch the bonds form so they believe in them when things get hard.

Treating all members of the found family as interchangeable. Everyone is nice to each other and that is it.

Real families - found or otherwise - have specific dynamics between specific people. Character A and Character B bicker constantly but would take a bullet for each other. Character C is the glue. Character D is the one everyone worries about. Map the individual relationships.

Forgetting to test the found family. If the bonds are never threatened, the reader never feels their strength.

Put pressure on the family. Have someone betray the group, or nearly leave, or keep a secret that fractures trust. The moment of repair - or the failure to repair - is where the real emotional power lives.

Try It Yourself

Quick Exercise

Create a found family of four characters. For each one, write a single sentence describing their wound - the reason they need this family. Then write a short scene (300-400 words) showing the group in a mundane moment together - eating a meal, fixing something, traveling. Do not have them talk about their bond directly. Let the reader feel the family through small gestures: who sits where, who makes sure everyone eats, who cracks the joke when things get tense.

Novelium

Keep your found family consistent

Novelium's character tracking helps you manage the web of relationships in your found family - tracking each member's dynamics, growth, and role so no one gets lost in the ensemble.

CONTINUE LEARNING
Planning & Structure
Map out the individual relationships within your found family before you start writing. A group of five has ten unique pairings - each one should feel different and specific.
Writing the Draft
When drafting found family scenes, focus on the small moments as much as the big ones. Readers fall in love with found families through banter, inside jokes, and quiet acts of care - not just dramatic rescues.