Genre

Fake Dating

/feɪk ˈdeɪ.tɪŋ/ phrase
IN ONE SENTENCE

A romance trope where two characters pretend to be in a relationship, and the performance gradually becomes real.

Definition

Fake dating puts two characters into a pretend romantic relationship for practical reasons: impressing an ex, satisfying family pressure, winning a bet, fulfilling a contract. The fun is watching the performance blur into reality. As they hold hands and share inside jokes and present a united front, the question shifts from 'when will others find out?' to 'when will they admit it's not fake anymore?'

Why It Matters

Fake dating is one of romance's most structurally elegant tropes. It gives you built-in forced proximity, escalating physical contact, and a ticking clock (the ruse will eventually end). Studying it teaches you how to use a situation to drive romantic escalation organically, which is useful in any romance setup.

Famous Examples

The Love Hypothesis — Ali Hazelwood

A fake-dating arrangement between a grad student and a professor that launched a BookTok phenomenon.

To All the Boys I've Loved Before — Jenny Han

A contract relationship to make an ex jealous, with the fake boyfriend becoming the real one.

The Spanish Love Deception — Elena Armas

Bringing a fake date to a family wedding, the most common fake-dating setup executed with charm.

Try It Yourself

Quick Exercise

Write the scene where two characters have to sell their fake relationship to someone who matters: a parent, an ex, a boss. One of them is better at the performance than the other. Through the awkwardness and the moments that feel surprisingly natural, show the reader that this fake thing is becoming real before the characters notice.

CONTINUE LEARNING
Planning & Structure
Fake dating requires plotting the escalation of fake intimacy and the moments where it stops being performance.