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Oxymoron

/ˌɒksɪˈmɔːrɒn/ noun
IN ONE SENTENCE

Two contradictory words placed together to create a striking, meaningful phrase - like 'deafening silence' or 'bittersweet.'

Definition

An oxymoron combines two words that seem to contradict each other into a single phrase. 'Jumbo shrimp,' 'living dead,' 'cruel kindness' - these phrases should not make sense, but they do, and they capture something that neither word could express alone. The word itself is an oxymoron, coming from the Greek for 'sharp-dull.' Oxymorons work because life is full of contradictions, and sometimes the most truthful thing you can say is something that seems impossible.

Why It Matters

Oxymorons give you the power to express complex, contradictory emotions in just two words. When you write 'a peaceful fury,' the reader feels both calm and rage simultaneously - something a single word could never achieve. They are particularly useful for moments when a character's experience defies simple description, which, if you think about it, is most of the moments that actually matter in a story.

Types of Oxymoron

Descriptive oxymoron +
Compound oxymoron +
Dramatic oxymoron +

Famous Examples

Romeo and Juliet — William Shakespeare

Shakespeare piles oxymorons into Romeo's speeches - 'O brawling love, O loving hate, O heavy lightness, serious vanity' - to show that love, especially forbidden love, is a tangle of contradictions.

1984 — George Orwell

The Party's slogans are political oxymorons: 'War is Peace. Freedom is Slavery. Ignorance is Strength.' Orwell uses them to show how totalitarian language destroys meaning itself.

Beloved — Toni Morrison

Morrison frequently uses oxymoronic language to capture the impossible contradictions of slavery and its aftermath, where love and horror, freedom and haunting, exist in the same breath.

Common Mistakes

Using cliched oxymorons

Phrases like 'deafening silence' and 'bitter sweet' have been used so much they have lost their spark. Challenge yourself to create original oxymorons that capture the specific contradiction of your scene.

Forcing contradictions that do not illuminate anything

An oxymoron should reveal a truth about the contradictory nature of experience. If the contradiction is just clever wordplay with no deeper meaning, it feels like showing off.

Overusing oxymorons in prose

One well-placed oxymoron can define a scene. Five in the same paragraph will make the reader feel like they are reading a list of word puzzles.

Try It Yourself

Quick Exercise

Write ten original oxymorons that describe emotional states. Avoid common ones - no 'deafening silence' or 'bittersweet.' Then pick your three favorites and write a sentence for each that uses the oxymoron in the context of a specific character and situation, making the contradiction feel natural and necessary rather than forced.

CONTINUE LEARNING
Writing the Draft
When you hit a moment where a character feels two contradictory things at once, reach for an oxymoron. It is often the most honest way to describe a complex emotional moment.